In judging how attractive I can, how much of a risk would you tell an Asian to take in being good with actual experience already in actively loving and tendering kids? I did say last night something with the word k*** which was on the no-no list.... and I said well people like such and such are shit and decided to get that outta the way or something like that. That's called shit, though. Don't mean it against the people who all did that, have nothing waiting at the end for you, no good news....